I believe that in most cases people will treat you the way you teach them to treat you. Does that sound like I am blaming you? Quite the contrary; I am telling you to take back your power.
When you dress well and maintain a well groomed appearance, you convey to others that you care enough about yourself to keep a well attended to appearance. When you live in a clean and tidy environment, it shows others that you value yourself enough to want your space to be neat and attractive. This list could go on and on. This is not to say that we all walk around well dressed and with no hair out of place, 24/7. But you get the idea.
How about the things less material? What do you convey when you put yourself last or when someone is habitually late to appointments with you, but you say nothing about it? Maybe you always say yes to every request made of you. Or perhaps you allow people to remain in your life who often say negative things to you. As humans we model our behavior after others in many situations. If people see that you do not treat yourself in a way that says you value yourself…. they will probably treat you the same way.
I believe around 90% of issues we face as adult women can be connected to our self worth concepts. I believe that with a higher value placed on self, your perspective will shift dramatically. But learning to see your true worth and value can be easier said than done. That’s where I come in. As a life coach for women, I help you to find your true value and to build on that value. Having a personal life coach or a spiritual coach can make a difference in your life. Want to know more? Email me at jenny@thelifecoachforwomen.com and set up a free consultation phone session!
Jenny Good – the Life Coach For Women
