As moms in this day and age, we often feel pressures to be many things at once. Some of us were raised by strict parents and perhaps we are trying to approach our own parenting roles in a more liberal fashion. So the question is, “do I need to be my child’s friend?” My answer? “How has it been working for you so far?”

If you have been approaching your mothering as your child’s friend, but there are problems arising, that is your signal to do something differently. The role your child needs you to take will ebb and flow and change many times. So if being a friend is not working, it is okay to become more of an authority figure. It is okay to revamp your parenting blueprint to fit the current needs of your child.

I invite you to reframe your perspective on being a friend to your child. Let’s explore what being a friend means. Being a friend sometimes means telling someone the truth even when the truth is hard to hear. Being a friend can mean taking a stand when it’s in the best interest of your friend. Being a friend is not always about going along with the other party 100%. So when you are parenting your child in a way that makes her “hate her life” and groan and moan… you might actually be being her true friend at that very moment. Will he or she see it that way right now? Not likely. But soon, they will thank you for giving what they needed, and not necessarily what they wanted.

If you want to enlist the support of a parenting coach, be selective. Shop around because your parenting life coach can play a key role in the results you see in your life, as a parent. As a professional with a background in early childhood education as well as coaching, I believe I bring the best of both worlds to my clients. Ask questions when you speak to your prospective parenting coach and get a feel for their style. Armed with your instinct and some information from your perspective parenting coach, you can achieve the results you want for your parent/child relationship.

There is hope and choice available to you. No matter what life transition you may be working through, you can come through it stronger, wiser, and better. As a life coach for women, it is my role to support you and help guide you in your journey through transition. Together we can collaborate to find the best possible solutions, the brightest paths for progress, and to emotionally nurture you as you move through your transition.

Some examples are women in life transitions are:

There are many more transitional situations, of course. Without transition, you would not be here right now. Transition can be a stepping stone to better things. You can choose how you will experience your transition. You have that power. If you are interested in speaking with me about how women’s life coaching can supprt you in your own life’s transition, I would love to hear from you. Contact me at: jenny@thelifecoachforwomen.com

All The Best,
Jenny Good – The Life Coach For Women